Sunday, August 29, 2010

Combating spiritual anger


After church this morning I joined a bunch of friends in a "prayer circle" to pray for what will be the founding of the South Loop Vineyard in a couple weeks, (?) as well as a couple other individual needs. Usually when I pray, whether it's alone or with another person, whether it's directly for someone or just in general, I do my best to fully immerse myself because of its importance and its power. But sometimes I'm too distracted, either with some stuff that's on my mind, or because I somehow ended up in a place I didn't want to be at the moment.

 

To be fair, I was a little angry at that moment. Not because of my friends -- I sought them out and chose to join the prayer circle -- but because I felt I was supposed to be in conversation with another friend from church with whom an informal catching-up meeting was to take place. But during the second service (I was in the worship band, and we didn't have a closing number, so I got to "duck out" early), I ran across a man who's been fighting to get on his feet and who happened to be at church. I won't disclose too much about him -- after all, what's going on in his life is his own personal dealing -- but I will say he's been relying on God an amazing amount during this current trial, and all he really wanted and/or needed was prayer. We talked for a bit, and I prayed for him for a bit, but I got the sense that I needed to do something more for him. Unfortunately I couldn't take him in (I don't live on my own and I couldn't see my folks approving of me taking in random strangers), and I didn't have any cash, so I was praying for myself in that God would show me something I could do for the man.

 

I ended up deciding to introduce this man to my South Loop friends. After listening to some of the things he needed at that time, I realized that these friends could help him in some ways I could not. So I brought him to the prayer circle and then to lunch, and just allowed him to get to know some of the people there (he'd already known a couple). At the end of the day, he was still in many ways in the same spot he was when I found him, but I can only hope I did something tangible that's sure to pay dividends in both the near and more-distant future.

 

But I remember thinking about my anger with God. After all, I knew he had me meet this man on purpose, and I wasn't too happy about being derailed off of what would have been catching up with this other friend that I hadn't in a while. I remember continuing this frustration not just to today but to tomorrow, where if I was called to really help this man (or someone else) that God would abort my plane from arriving Denver (or my train from getting to Midway), I reasoned that I would be pissed. But God's way is higher than our way. God's call is higher than our call. Yes, but why should I have to be forced to stay in Chicago just for something as small as that? I've been waiting to make this trip west for years! Do you really want to make yourself miserable by being angry for doing something God is calling you to do? Are you really going to hold it against the Lord just because you didn't get your way? OK, you win; I know you're right, and I know you're always right. But I don't know how to let go of a botched plan that big (at least "that big" from my perspective), and what would result in me missing a trip like this would be anger and depression that lasted for months. It's happened before in other forms. I know it can happen again.

 

I'm probably thinking the enemy stirred up the anger in me. After all, I would love nothing more than a few occasional plans of mine to go how I want it, but the more I hold it in me the harder it becomes to be open to any and all alterations or wholesale changes. I did manage to touch base with the friend, and we will get to catch up later this evening. And I did take in the "strange" man at least for a few hours, bought his lunch, introduced him to some other people on whom he could lean, and maintained open lines of communication for future interactions down the road.

 

I suppose I did something right today. I just hate it when I get suckered into these "my-will-vs-God's-will" arguments. I was so worried about doing something that would steer me far off course (like missing this week's adventure), and at the same time I was preoccupied with what I felt was a responsibility to do right for the man. Oh ye of little faith... Yes, I get it... thanks. [And at last check, my plan to fly to Colorado and drive to California was still intact.]

 

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Kind of as a corollary to the thoughts I expressed above, last night I did some random reading, going through a few chapters in Isaiah. I came across a somewhat familiar text from the 11th chapter in which at least one piece I know of starts with the phrase "A tender shoot from Jesse's stem will spring forth" (referring to Jesus). The passage that caught my eye this time was about different animals, some of whom normally would prey on others, would all come together in harmony. This was Isaiah's dream for what the world would ultimately be, as revealed through Christ.

 

The wolf will live with the lamb, the leopard will lie down with the goat, the calf and the lion and the yearling together; and a little child will lead them. The cow will feed with the bear, their young will lie down together, and the lion will eat straw like the ox.

-- Isaiah 11:6-7 (NIV) ["http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=isaiah%2011:6-7&version=NIV"]

 

After reading and pondering the above passage, I thought back to why the world was so screwed up in the first place. It brought me back to Genesis 3 ["http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+3&version=NIV"] when Adam and Eve were in the garden being tempted by Satan disguised as a snake. After all, the snake told them to eat of the Tree of Knowledge so that they would be like God, knowing good and evil. And that's when it hit me: "and evil." Thing is, Adam and Eve already knew good, simply by virtue of having been in God's Garden of Eden. They were oblivious to, for example, nakedness, and all of the potential issues that would come with it. By eating from the Tree they gained insight on sex and lust, for instance. They learned of things that were evil. The devil -- inherently evil -- tempted them to learn more about what he's all about, and they fell for it. There's also something about free will and naivety, but I'll get into it another time.

 

I'm thinking that's why Jesus was so important. He had to come to right all the wrongs from before, and to offer humanity redemption. At least, it's what some of the texts in the Advent carols say. It's kinda scary when I think about it.